Hello Full Potential Beings! It’s been a while since my last post. It’s been a whirlwind of a time here over the last week. Remember that new potential relationship? Well now it’s a thing. AND Emma and I got back to together as well. And we’re all in love. That’s right.. we’re calling ourselves a ‘throuple’ which means a relationship of three.
It hasn’t been easy navigating the exploration of this ‘throuple’. In fact in the beginning there was a lot of resistance and jealousy but we have been able to work our way through it (really in the first day or two is where we had the most challenge) and now it’s just an incredible experience of a dream scenario.
I think the key to making this work is having really open communication, sharing our visions and values and being so sure about the love we all want to share that we’re willing to let go of what it needs to look like. In fact Emma was given the freedom to explore another connection, only to realize that she wants to be connected in this configuration from her total freedom.
And that’s also the key here.. operating from total freedom knowing this is exactly where we want to be. Nobody is forcing anyone else’s vision on the other. And in this freedom we are choosing each other.
I spoke with my former loves Rebekah and Zenith and we all realized how we had different visions but we loved each other so much we were trying to impose those visions on each other. But that takes so much energy and effort and can create a lot of friction in the relationship. Now we love each other but we’re not imposing our visions on one another.
They have a different way of living this dream and so do I .. and they are actually very happy for me. And I’m happy for them! And it’s beautiful.
In freedom we make powerful choices. In clarity of vision we can find others who are aligned. In letting go of visions that aren’t aligned we make room for visions that are. In loving we can simply accept where someone is and how they want to live this dream life. And it’s better for everyone.. because ultimate we all want to have love in our dream, but it doesn’t have to look a certain way. What is right for you is right for you.. it doesn’t have to be right for everyone.
May you enjoy the blessing of peace and love in this dream. Find the relationship configurations that are right for you and enjoy life from a place of freedom and alignment with your highest self.
Have a great day and see you soon! <3
James Sunheart is a student of personal development and spiritual growth. He is passionate about optimizing people, systems and life. He’s written 7 books. Interviewed hundreds of experts. Given a TED Talk in France. Lives in Costa Rica while developing a sustainable eco-village. For opportunities email: James AT FullPotential.com